REPOST: Paw Prints in the Poop – A Petrospective

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Originally published in 2015.

Dom and I learned a lot about dogs in our first year with Cheyenne, from how to raise a puppy to how to properly scrub pee out of a carpet. It’s strange that even with all the hard work and property damage, we ultimately decided that one dog simply wasn’t enough. This wasn’t a personal decision; Cheyenne really needed a brother. Here’s a look back at 2014 and everything we’ve learned about living in a household with two dogs with two radically different personalities.

January 10th rolls around, and we celebrate Chy’s first birthday. We treat her to sushi and treats from Lofty Dog. She eats casually, taking each piece individually to the living room to enjoy it. There is no reason to worry about a plate of food left unattended in the kitchen. Who else would eat it? Surely not the humans.

For the first time, Cheyenne has another dog visit her home. His name is Jetson, and he’s a rescue from a shelter in San Antonio. He doesn’t know his place in the pack, so he’s submissive and lovable. He’s a little sick and a little underweight, so Chy is able to overpower him when they wrestle. His true passion is sleeping. Dom is in love with him. Chy and I are cautiously aloof.

A day before Valentine’s, we officially adopt Jetson. He had to go back to the original foster mom for a little while, but eventually he ends up at home with us. His absence was felt by every member of the family, but mostly Chy. Within a week of his homecoming, I snap this photo of them cuddling under my desk. In all the time he had been with us, he and Chy rarely slept near each other and certainly not touching. I like to believe Jetson is relieved to be back with us. He needed a home, but little did we know he would soon go from this is my HOME to this is MY home.

Everyone feels the effects of Jetson’s separation anxiety. While in his crate, he barks and whines and generally fills the house with scary noises that send Chy running into the corner to hide. When not in his crate, he makes several attempts to jump over the gate separating the kitchen from the living room. But it isn’t all bad news. Every once in a while, his escape attempts knock over the trash can (which hold one side of the gate to the wall). In this pic from March, Chy investigates the spilled garbage. Both of them enjoy a whole clementine before I stop snapping pictures.

As the months progress, Jetson learns two important things: this is his home, and he is safe here. One of the ways he shows his comfort is by lounging in the backyard. He loves darting out of the back door, running to a nice patch of grass, and throwing himself down to sunbathe. It’s behavior we’ve never seen in Chy; she is constantly searching the grass for lizards or frogs or snakes. Jet is more confident when it comes to relaxing, and honestly, in general. It’s one of the factors that will make his adolescence such a trying time for all of us.

I remember the first time Chy slept on our bed. It was cute. I remember the first time Chy and Jet slept on our bed. It was not cute. By May, Chy has started to reach her adult weight, and Jet is well on his way to recovery. That’s about 90 pounds of dog in the bed. The only reasonable course of action is to confine the dogs to the loft overnight, allowing them to sleep where they can see us but not get to us. It works well, for the most part, but then there are some mornings when Chy lays at the gate just like in this pic and whines softly. Did I say mornings? I mean nights too. Jet doesn’t really care too much about being kept out of the bedroom. He often carves out his own spot on the couch downstairs.

By June, the novelty of having a brother / sister has worn off. Chy and Jet have now had a few knock-down drag-outs over food, toys, and our affection. They argue like siblings, and instead of looking to each other for entertainment, they try their best to engage us. New behaviors start to show. Jetson is now constantly underfoot and nips at our faces. Chy is defiant, obeying commands only when it suits her. Foolishly, we think the behaviors are endearing.

I just wanted to include a picture of Jetson getting a bath. Look at that face. Does that look like the face of a cold-hearted killer? I think not.

It has been seven months since Jetson arrived, and we still haven’t figured out an activity he likes. Chy loves to fetch and play with the water hose. Jetson, on the other hand, can’t be bothered to fetch. He likes to play tug-of-war with the rope, but he’s so strong and I’m getting so old. We try running with him, but he has no concept of heeling, so the danger of tripping over him is always there. Dom and I agree that Jetson needs a healthy dose of training and exercise. We start running him through the training we learned with Chy, and he takes to it well, learning to sit, stay, down, etc. But it’s not enough, and we learn it the hard way.

We get a visit from Jetson’s former foster mother, who brings her dog over to play with Chy and Jet. Jetson lived with her and her two dogs for weeks with no issues. From the outset, it’s clear something has changed in Jet. He goes after the dog. He goes after the foster. Dom and I are mortified. We pen him up and begin a long conversation about what went wrong. Eventually, we try having the foster mom stand tall and be forceful with her commands to Jetson. It seems to work, but we don’t let him out. It’s not worth the risk.

By October, we’ve stopped going to the dog park completely. Our walks are stressful; Jetson lunges at every passer-by, both human and animal. Friends rarely come to visit. Chy and Jet are forced to look to each other for interaction, and they have become a close-knit pack. They’ll defend not only us, but each other. Dom and I realize this isolation can’t be good for them, so we start researching training in Austin. We settle on Sit Means Sit and schedule a consultation right away.

Before we get a chance to start training, we take Jet to the vet for a checkup. Unfortunately, his growl evokes instant fear from the vet tech, and he lunges at her. She refuses to continue the examination unless Jet is muzzled. We comply and have to stare into the eyes of an animal who has no idea why this is happening to him. Sometimes we forget that Jetson is just doing what he thinks he should be doing, and that it’s our fault for not teaching him better. “Don’t worry, buddy. We’re going to get some help,” we tell him.

Training is hard, and it takes its toll on both Chy and Jet. Rules and boundaries are new concepts. They can’t run around in the house like they used to. They have to stay on their placeboards most of the day. It’s tough. We try not to expect too much out of them too soon. We survive Thanksgiving by shuffling the dogs from one place to the other. Will they ever be able to roam the house with the family? We’re starting to think not. During their breaks from place, Chy and Jet wrestle and play with new intensity. They wear themselves out, and even if it’s time to get back on place, we let them sleep.

Aside from behavior issues, it’s been interesting to watch the personalities of our dogs develop over the last year. Jetson Hamish Pharrell B-Hole Verastiqui is loving, goofy, and a fierce protector. He goes crazy for his meals, but will sit patiently and drool on the floor until you let him eat. His favorite place to sleep is on your chest. When he wants attention, he picks up something from the floor or trashcan and brings it to us. Cheyenne Marie Princess Verastiqui is defiant, aloof, and infinitely sweet. She goes crazy for a game of fetch and will run herself to exhaustion. Her favorite place to sleep is pressed tightly up against Dom. When she wants attention, she barks and whines and gives you the death stare.


It’s 2015, and Jetson is making small but noticeable improvements. While he has to wear a muzzle to class, he is slowly losing his desire to attack anything that comes near us. At class, another dog owner was able to pet him. At the vet, he got through an entire exam plus shots with only the smallest growl. Just recently, at our latest group training class, he allowed half a dozen strangers to pet him in the face even after we expressly asked them not to. He’s not ready to run freely through the neighborhood by any stretch, but he’s starting to take his cues from us, and that’s really what he needs to relax and be happy.

Cheyenne, while not aggressive, lives in her own world of distractions. Her training at home is crisp, but outside these walls, all bets are off. Like Jetson, she doesn’t see us as leaders, although probably for different reasons. Maybe I should stop picking her up and carrying her around the house?

This year, we’re looking forward to going out into the world as a family. If Chy and Jet had any understanding of the places we would go if they could simply heel and behave, I’m sure they would shape up overnight.

About the author

Daniel Verastiqui

Daniel Verastiqui is a Science Fiction author from Austin, Texas. His novels explore relationships and identity in the context of ubiquitous technology, pervasive violence, and frequent nudity. His most recent book, Brigham Plaza, is now available in print and digital formats on Amazon.

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